I help single Christian women meet, date and marry their husbands.
You’re over 30 and tired of dating men that waste your time.
You don’t know exactly what’s wrong and why you’re not married yet.
You’re tired of dating men that string you along but don’t commit to you.
You’re ready to meet your husband but don’t want to compromise your Christian values.
I can help you!
You don’t want to date a man that’s going to keep wasting your time and you don’t want to make the same mistake twice. You’re worried you won’t be able to meet the right man to build a family with
I UNDERSTAND.
I’m Tolu Falode - a Christian Dating Coach.
I specialize in helping women like you meet, date and marry their God ordained husbands using practical dating strategies while partnering with the Holy Spirit.
I show you how to date your husband even if you’ve gone through a divorce, you’re over 30 and not sure what to do differently to meet your husband and you’re worried you can’t meet the right man.
You can find my teachings on Instagram page (@fantheflame) and Youtube Channel-Tolu Falode.
If you’re ready to date to attract your husband:
I have been featured on Bella Naija and Genevieve Magazine Nigeria.
I show women of faith how to date in partnership with the Holy Spirit using practical strategies to meet men they can marry
I have provided confidential counseling to young men and women going through relationship hell on a daily basis, have mentored individuals that are seeking to meet their God ordained mate and develop a personal relationship with God and have provided advise to those that struggle with commitment in relationships over the past 3 years.
Much like a Relationship Coach helps her clients identify the issues and weaknesses in their love lives, I help my students and clients understand the core of the issue in their recurring breakups, broken homes, abusive relationships from a spiritual and emotional perspective to allow for a stronger connection between you and your potential partner/spouse through practical, tangible steps because, the truth is:
I CARE .
I care about your pain, your struggle, I care about your breakups, the dilemma of unrequited love or staying where your heart gets constantly broken and I am here to help you cross to the other side-I am here to give you the tools you would need to build a lasting foundation in your relationship through steps I have tried and tested over time to produce results because:
I'VE BEEN YOU.
Prior to this, I have been the one that has felt betrayed by relationship heartache, the one that has tried to put all the pieces back together, I have been in those awkward situations where you know your relationship is not moving forward but have no idea if, when, why and how you should get out-so I personally understand where you are coming from.
My turning point was Jesus-I decided and committed to my relationship with Him in 2014 after a personal tragedy-He literally changed my life:
I have become an author, international speaker, founder of a Youth Ministry where I help individuals daily through relationship advice and counseling, leader of an annual conference to enable people step into their callings, a relationship coach and Christian teacher.
“Of all the people and pages I have visited and read from on the Internet, Toluwalase’s stands out via her writing on her Blog “Tolu Falode”. I particularly love how she connected with me beyond the internet and was and has been intentional about my growth and progress. She is a FRIEND, not just a Teacher, my friend.”
“Tolu speaks about being a wife before the man finds you and this is exactly what the Lord had been telling me for the last 6 months-the desires and thoughts I have now are to be a wife-something I had scorned for most of my life!”
“I gained clarity in my relationship about the difference between dating and courting and I was able to see where my relationship was dealing with confusion. ”
