Hey Guys! This week I will be tackling “destiny
connections.” Destiny connections are relationships that push your life forward
instead of pulling it back. For today, I will discuss how to identify destiny
connections in your life.
1. Connections: This seems obvious right? But lets think about
this-who are you connected to? Who has
influence over your life-your parents/siblings/friends? You need to identify
the particular niche of influence that this person controls in your daily
decisions and actions. For instance, your parents may control your economic
situation; your friends may carry influence on your social environment or
surroundings and your siblings may even carry influence in both or more areas
or none at all. When you start to look at these people in your life-you will
notice you gravitate towards certain people for certain areas of conflict you
experience. and you will be able to access the impact they have had on those
areas whether positively or negatively.
2. The power of influence: This is where influence
comes in. This person in question carries a weight of influence on your
friendships, life opportunities, and challenges. This is why it is important to
determine the value they add to your life. Do they advise you positively-ie do
they encourage you to follow your dreams through realistic steps or has there
been a pattern of bad decisions produced in the wake of their “words of wisdom”.
For instance, have you ever noticed in the course of your academics if you hung
out with those that were unserious your grades plummet but if you hang out with
the seriously minded students your grades are elevated? It’s the same in
life-if you hang around those that lack ambition-it will influence your future
prospects. But if you hang around those that are determined to succeed-it
pushes you into destiny.
3. Strategy: Another key way to identify destiny
connections is to evaluate the strategies they have employed in the past. How have
their past decisions affected your present perspective? Has it made you regret
certain decisions? Has it cost you valuable friendships/time? Or have they
added wisdom to your steps? Have they led you to the right places/people? What
has been the strategic overview they have had on your life. The reason this is
important is it would enable you to establish a pattern of success or failure
so you can remedy the core of the problem in that area in your life. This will
enable you to decide where and when this person has made an impact on your
choices and how those choices have incrementally influenced your perspective in
life.
These are just 3 easy
steps to identify destiny connections in your life. The aim is to enable you to
move forward and to eliminate and elevate relationships in your sphere of
influence appropriately.
I will be sharing
exclusive content with those that subscribe to my e-mail list on material
concerning relationships, faith and destiny!
What will it entail?
Those on my subscription list gain access to tailored information
with interactive steps to improve your emotional, physical and spiritual
life!
There will be more
studies catered to suit your needs on this new and detailed adventure and I'm
excited to begin with you guys!
If you will like
to partake of this-Then subscribe by providing your e-mail
address under the link on the right or below!
Have a lovely day!
God Bless,
Tolu.