BECOMING CONFIDENT: HOW TO WORK WELL WITH OTHERS

Simone Becchetti for Stocksy United
1.                 Energy is important: A wise person once said, people meet your energy before they meet you-its important that you are projecting positivity. This will enable the atmosphere around your conversation to be conducive for discussion and collaboration.

2.                 Pick your battles: If you fight every battle, you will lose the cause. It is important to understand that when working with others-compromise is your key. Compromise unlocks each and every door tailored towards progression and growth. Hence it is important not to starve the process with your stubbornness-embrace each of your differences but stick to your strategy. This means as you remain focused on the vision, you will be able to hold on to its foundations but how the structure is built should be open to creative contributions.

Simone Becchetti for Stocksy United
3.                 Listen and speak: This is why it is important to listen before you speak. Let your ears be open to receive criticism-and choose to respond in a manner that showcases a positive intention to progress not a negative or hostile attitude that reeks of regret-its very important to remain engaged in the conversation and to do this successfully, you need to listen and respond accordingly to each step in the process of working on your project.

4.                 Contribute substantively: Don’t just speak for the sake of speaking-unless people will eventually stop listening to what you have to say even if and when it is a substantial point you made. It is important to speak when you have substance to contribute-otherwise remain mute. Observe the environment of your collaboration-what are the working dynamics of the group? Learn how to contribute in a manner that garners attention to your views-you do this by providing tangible and practical contributions.
Simone Becchetti for Stocksy United


5.                  Remain true: Keep your eyes on the prize and work accordingly. Wherever you feel your steps have started to struggle-move accordingly through engaging with your partners and listening to their advice-build your strengths and stretch your weaknesses. This will enable you to not only remain true to your goal but to become invested in the process because it leads to self growth. And this is the value of teamwork-it teaches you how to manage other people but mostly how to manage your moods-and at the end of the process you should feel more confident in who you are and what you stand for in your views.

Q: What challenges do you struggle with when working with people.

Tip: When you disagree with a team mate, you both should involve the other team members in the discussion/point of conflict-this will make this a conversation that is less personal and more public hence no one will feel personally slighted by the outcome.

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