Hey Guys! I have been
MIA for a couple of reasons but I’m happy to be back!
Today I want to discuss
the importance in setting yourself free through 5 easy steps:
1.
Date yourself: There is power in self-acceptance. A lot of people get lost because they have
not found themselves. It is important to place yourself first so you can
then flow into the lives of those around you. When you begin to date yourself
and I mean really get into knowing who you are-explore new ideas, take on new
opportunities, don’t be afraid to push yourself into new experiences-then you
will discover parts of yourself you never knew even existed. There is enormous
power in personal awakening and there is an energy that is birthed through that
process that will enable you to discover your hidden assets.
2.
Identity: Identity is found from self-scrutiny.
Who are you? This is deeper than your name/profession/age/background-its hidden
at your core-your center. What makes you unique? What makes you
angry/happy/sad/passionate/upset? These are questions you have to discover
through dating yourself and this releases your identity. You see, identity
holds the key to your destiny hence it is important to be able to connect with
identity to open your destiny. A lot of people are confused about their
callings in life-that is because they
remain deaf to the sound of their identity. When you discover your identity
through self-examination and exploration, you will discover your unique beauty.
3.
Confidence: This in turn releases
confidence. Confidence is so key-it voices an inner certainty like I always
like to say and when you release your identity, you have given yourself the
confidence to be able to speak. Confidence is not found through any other means-it
comes from within. You can watch as many people speak as you want to, you can
mimic their tactics as much as you want, you can even research their
techniques-it won’t work for you. It is so important to realize confidence
is unique to your person. It comes from your identity wrapped up in your
individuality giving a voice to your personality. When you connect with
yourself, you have connected with confidence. Do you know a secret? Confidence
opens doors no other person can shut because only you have that
key-opportunities respond to your voice-not another person’s footsteps, not
another person’s story or trials-just yours and yours alone. It is a unique
path birthed in the process of self acceptance and opportunities respond to
that uniqueness that is wrapped up in your core-it’s a secret many people need
to take advantage of.
4.
Gifts and callings: When you have gone
through the process of dating yourself, recognizing your identity and release
your inner certainty through consistency, you will have discovered your unique
calling and there is something beautiful about this moment that never ceases to
birth power into your footsteps because your calling today may not be your
calling tomorrow but there is a consistent thread that is woven through the
whole tapestry of your talents-and for that beautiful pattern to remain
relevant and permanent in its ability to draw people forward, it must
remain connected to your core. Hence you need to remain in the place of
acceptance, identity, confident persistency in order to give a resounding and
powerful voice to your calling. This is how people stay relevant-if you notice,
when a lot of celebrities lose their status or their positions-it is a result
of an inner problem-alcohol, drugs etc. Hence you need to remain connected to
yourself so you do not lose your voice-your calling.
5.
Love Yourself: This is why the last and
most important step is to love yourself-love your flaws, your features-work on
improving yourself each and everyday, learn to be humble and listen to others
around you-there is power in self acceptance. When you know who you are no one
else can tell you who you are not. In other words, no one else will have the
power to manipulate the way you look at your purpose because you are connected
with your calling, you are protective of your peace, you have learned to spend
time with yourself, you are not afraid of your past and you are focused on your
future.
When
you realize this, you become a force to be reckoned with.
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God Bless,
Tolu.